My oldest cat, Lucky. She usually makes herself scarce because my sister's young tortoise shell cat chases her. Lucky is over 13 years old. She was a bit abused as a kitten; the little girl that lived in the house she was born in used to like to throw her off the balcony. So now she doesn't like to be picked up or held. She used to sometimes sit on peoples' laps, but she's gotten a bit frail as she gets old and we think she has trouble with jumping or leaping now.